Is chastity worth pursuing?

For a 19-year-old, I've managed to seriously get myself messed up ually, to the point where I seriously doubt that I'll be able to sustain a healthy marriage. While this deeply saddens me, I don't want to hurt anyone, and when I look at the alternative, lifelong chastity, for all of the flak it has gotten it doesn't sound that bad. What do you think?

Noob researching building a computer?

I thought about building my own pc until I found this site----Cyberpower,Inc------check it out, I think it's better than building one--good machines and good prices.

Dan Brown Judas not Jesus.?

So what you are trying to say is Dan Brown made people double check their Bibles and the Christians who actually did that finished their faith... Those that remained strong and kept their Bibles shut are holding the church together?

Is there an experts' list of the greatest defensive position players of all time?

I've been wondering how to fill up field on the basis of GLOVEWORK alone. A might be a better hitter than B at a given position -- or might be a better all-around player. However, if B is clearly the better defensive player, B would win the position. The only ones I can think of, off the top of my head, would be Ozzie Smith at shortstop and Brooks Robinson at third base; also, Willie Mays at centerfield. How would the rest of the field look, according to the historical consensus?

What color bindings to get?

I am getting the 2009 Ride Agenda, Ride Haze boots in black, and burton freestyle bindings. i dont know what would look better though, either white or black. what do you guys think?

Workouts to Make it seem you had a hour gl shape.?

8 minute abs really do work- you can watch them online too! And to get rid of the fat around your stomach (because doing sit-ups will build your muscles but not burn fat), drinking milk after a work out is supposed to work for that (just read an article about it)- I think you drink a gl right after and then another one a half hour later. For a more muscular (and in turn, more shapely) try lunges- forward, backwards, to the side (and when you're lunging keep your knee right over your ankle- not past). Do these exercises along with cardio like jumping rope, running and maybe even some yoga and you'll look hourgly and toned!

Why is my husband being this way?

We have been fighting for a while about his cheating (at least 7 times in 8 years) that I had recently found out about 6 months ago. We have kids so I have been trying to work with him for their sake. He refuses counseling, doesn't feel guilty, and doesn't think he has done anything wrong. Well, the last time we fought he told me he was just here for the kids. I wonder when he stopped loving me because he has always acted like he loves me until I found out and called him out on his s***. So I told him if he wasn't attracted to me anymore, if he didn't love me anymore, if he didn't even like me anymore (because all he does is tell me all day long all the bad things about me so I ume there is nothing good about me and he doesn't like me at all) to leave already. But he doesn't want a divorce because of the kids. He wants to stay in the house and have his own "private world." go out when he wants with whoever, whenever, whereever. Well, I told him fine do what you like go be happy but don't confuse me anymore. Because we seem to make up and then fight again. I told him don't tell me you love me if you don't. Don't hug and kiss me, just treat me like a coworker or friend or even a stranger. But if you do love me then we need to work on us. Another issue of ours is our lack of . I ask for it everyday and he always rejects me. So I told him if he was going to chose this "single" life than he better forget about having with me again. He told me yeah right in a few days we will have and you will be just fine. Well we haven't had in almost a month. He hasn't told me he loves me since the fight. Normally its "i love you" when we say goodbye on the phone, when we leave the house, etc. I say it to him and he doesn't say anything back. He doesn't say goodnight. He insists on sleeping in the same bed, but we don't snuggle or anything. He hasn't hugged me all week. He gave me two pecks on the lips this week that's it. It was his bday the other day and I threw him a surprise party. It was late when it ended and he had to get up for work the next day so he said thanks for the party i have to go to bed right now. Come to bed when you get the kids to sleep. No goodnight. No I love you. No hug or kiss goodnight. He didn't even want bday . I guess this means he doesn't love me anymore because he is doing what I told him to do (not to confuse me anymore) but it really hurts. Also, we were watching tv last night and he asked me to go bring him some ice cream. I get up and cook him breakfast and fix his lunch everyday and I cook dinner for when he gets home and wash and fold his laundry and everything else normal....so he still expects me to take care of him like a wife (or mother if you think about it) and yet there is no reciprocation no thank you. He works and brings home the money.....but I think I would rather be poor and working 3 jobs myself as long as I was in a happy fullfillinf marriage with someone who shows they care and they love me. He is the one who still stayed with me even though he cheated numerous times (its not that he left and came back it was all behind my blindly trusting back)....so it sort of seems like he does want me. I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want a divorce...no one does....but it seems like the only way I can be happy is to leave him. This morning he yelled at me because our daughters watered the flowers out front the day before and put too much water and so they were a little flooded. He saw this in the morning and flipped out. Why do we have to fight about something stupid like that? We have money, paid off cars, a nice home, two lovely children....why isn't this enough to make him happy in life and feel happy with us. I don't get what he wants. Any thoughts?